Today was the day that began the undoing of my heart for Guatemala 2017. Today is the day I met Andy. Andy is the Compassion sponsor child of the Kids Church at The Gathering. I will admit that I was a bit anxious going into today. For starters, I would be left to my own devices to find my way to the hotel where I was meeting him. Thankfully that went well. I probably paid twice as much as I should have for a “tuk tuk”… but when what I paid was less than $3US, I cannot really complain.
I arrived early to the beautiful hotel in Antigua where Compassion had arranged for us to meet. I sat in the front entryway where classical church music was playing. It calmed my spirit and was the gift from God that my anxious heart needed. As our meeting time approached and there was no sign of anyone, I wandered further in to the hotel… turns out Andy and friends (grandmother, a worker from the student centre, and a Compassion Host) were waiting in there. As soon as he knew it was me, Andy jumped out of his seat and wrapped his arms around me. #GuatemalaUndone
I presented him with gifts from the kids back home. He loved, loved, loved the fidget spinner!
Our day began with a trip to El Tenador… a beautiful mountain top park. I loved watching the expression on Andy’s face as we drove higher and higher… “I want to touch the clouds,” he said. We ate a delicious breakfast on the mountain top. For fun, Andy and I played many a game of “Totito”… or as we know it.. Tic Tac Toe.
I got my butt kicked. He won 18 games. I won 4. I let him win the first game. I mean, I didn’t want to discourage him! When I later told him that, he looked at me and quickly responded with “I let you win two.” One thing I learned about Andy: He is so very smart. He analyzed each possible play…and used his findings to … well… win.
As the day progressed I got to learn more and more about Andy and his family. His mother died when Andy was only 1 day old. His father died when he was 1 year old. His beautiful grandmother is raising him. They live near the dump in Guatemala City. It is an incredibly dangerous area. The Compassion Host told me I could never go there because it is too unsafe. Even other Guatemalans won’t go there unless accompanied by those actually living there. And even then, their cars are often vandalized. Andy’s house is one room made of tin. The cooking is done inside that room – yes, the same room they sleep in. Two years ago they had a fire and lost everything. They slept in a nearby church for 8 days while their home was rebuilt. In the words of Andy’s grandmother…”It was blessing. People gave us everything we needed. They gave us more than we had lost.” I fought tears as I marvelled at her incredible strength and faith in God. This story… these conditions are not uncommon here in Guatemala. Neither is the character of this brave woman. I learned this about Andy… he is resilient.
Our day ended with ice cream and a stroll through Central Park. Andy wanted to feed the “doves”… which are actually pigeons, but I didn’t have the heart to tell him that! And by “feed,” he really meant “chase and catch.” Such a boy. Andy finds joy everywhere. He smiles with his whole heart.
As we walked to the bus station, Andy grabbed my hand. May as well… he had already grabbed my heart! And when a sweet Guatemalan boy grabs your hand, it actually melts (and breaks) your heart. I didn’t want to say good bye. I didn’t want to send him back to the conditions he is living in. In the middle of this hustling bustling street, I prayed blessings and protection over this family. I prayed that God would bring me back to Guatemala, and that Andy and I would have another day together… I even told him I would try to bring some friends!
And now a word about sponsorship. Maybe two words: DO IT! Andy’s life is changed because of it. I know people often worry about where their finances are going and it is so important to do your due diligence whenever choosing an organization to sponsor through. Please believe me when I tell you that it works. I have seven of my own children. 3 with Compassion in El Salvador – whom I have yet to meet – and 4 here in Guatemala with Arms of Jesus – who I will hold in my arms in one short week from now. I see the benefits that they receive. I believe strongly in child sponsorship. I believe in caring for the least of these.
Thank you Kids Church for sponsoring Andy. You are making such an incredible difference in his life. Thank you for allowing ME to receive some of the blessing of your sponsorship as I spent the day with Andy. My heart is full to overflowing. Overwhelmed in a beautiful way. My heart is #GuatemalaUndone.